sometimes, i don’t believe a word anyone says.
what i do believe is this:
people are selfish.
they do what is best for them.
if it is at ALL inconvenient, they don’t go out of their way. or they like to say they will, to make themselves feel better, but when push comes to shove, it’s always all about them.
they will lie straight to your face. or your email. or your phone.
they will tell you whatever you want to hear. or what they think you want to hear. or what they think they think they really think they will do or say or be.
in reality, if it will end up to be at all messy or weird or scary or intense or hard, they’re out. they will bail, cruise, ignore, flail, leave, run, choke, gossip, tease, and pretend.
it happens all. the. fucking. time.
i believe i’m one of them, too.